Malcolm Gladwell's book, Outliers, showed how maturity often gets confused with ability in a child's younger years. This can lead to permanent limitations in opportunities for children who are born shortly before a cutoff date for a sport or school. Our oldest child has a birthday less than two weeks before the local school district's cutoff date, meaning she will be one of the very youngest in her school year. This in a district that no longer offers half-day kindergarten. Which would mean my relatively immature daughter would be expected to spend 30+ hours in an institutional setting where she would be measured against children who are up to one year older than she is.
I refuse to do that to my daughter. This is a child who can't even accept the presence of a substitute teacher in her Sunday school class. I doubt she'll "perform" well in full-day kindergarten four short months from now. The best thing I can do for her is let her continue to grow at her own pace for a while longer. She'll eventually go to school (probably full-time for a few years), but not until her relative immaturity is less marked and change doesn't traumatize her so.
Disability-Ability Matching Test
3 days ago
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